Recently, a friend of mine named Sharon shared something deeply personal. She is dealing with kidney disease, which can develop for a variety of reasons – not just diabetes.
After years of monitoring her health, her kidneys have declined to the point where she is now waiting for a kidney transplant.
Like many people in this situation, Sharon’s next chapter may include dialysis while she searches for a living kidney donor.
If you’d like to read her story, you can see it here:
https://www.nkr.org/SNW275/Card
Her situation caused me to start learning more about diabetes, kidney disease, and living kidney donation—and what I discovered surprised me.
One of the biggest misconceptions about kidney disease is that it only affects people who are unhealthy.
That’s simply not true.
Many people who develop kidney failure are:
In fact, many people don’t even realize their kidneys are failing until the disease is quite advanced.
Kidney disease can happen for many reasons. Two of the most common causes overall are:
In other cases, the cause is genetic or autoimmune (or factors unrelated to lifestyle), meaning lifestyle alone didn’t create the problem.
Many people assume diabetes is purely the result of diet or lack of exercise.
But the reality is more complicated.
Many individuals who develop diabetes:
Yet still develop the disease due to genetics or autoimmune conditions.
Over time, diabetes can damage the small blood vessels in the kidneys, which is why it is the leading cause of kidney failure worldwide.
When someone’s kidneys fail, they generally have two options:
While dialysis can sustain life, a transplant typically offers a much higher quality of life and longer survival.
Unfortunately, there are far more people who need kidneys than there are organs available from deceased donors.
That’s why living kidney donation is so important.
Programs like the National Kidney Registry help connect donors and recipients and even allow something called a paired exchange.
This means:
One donor can sometimes help multiple people receive life-saving transplants.
After learning more about the process, I completed my initial registration with the National Kidney Registry to see whether I might be eligible to help as a living donor.
I’m now waiting to learn more about next steps, including whether I might be a match through the process.
To be clear, this doesn’t mean I will necessarily donate. It simply begins the confidential screening process to determine whether someone is a safe and appropriate candidate.
When people hear about kidney donation, a few questions immediately come up.
Is it safe?
Living kidney donation has been performed for decades, and donors typically live full, healthy lives with one kidney.
Does it cost the donor anything?
Medical costs for the donation are covered, and programs like the National Kidney Registry provide support resources for donors.
Do you have to be a perfect match?
No. Through paired exchange programs, your kidney may help someone else while still helping the intended recipient.
Is testing confidential?
Yes. The initial donor screening process is private and simply helps you learn whether donation could be possible.
There are a few simple ways anyone can help.
Sometimes the person who ultimately becomes a donor is someone several degrees away from the recipient.
Simply sharing Sharon’s story increases the chances that the right person learns about it.
If you’re curious, you can learn more or begin the confidential screening process through Sharon’s page:
https://www.nkr.org/SNW275/Card
There is no obligation to donate. It’s simply a way to understand the process.
Even if donation isn’t something you can pursue, people facing kidney failure benefit from:
Before Sharon shared her story, I didn’t realize:
Sometimes the most meaningful help we can provide is simply learning, sharing, and supporting someone who needs it.
If Sharon’s story resonates with you, consider reading more or sharing her page.
One conversation, one share, or one person learning about donation could ultimately save someone’s life.